As I mentioned in last night’s blog post, I am having a super-duper-crazy-busy-work-week and Simon is out of town on business. The past four mornings have started at 4:00am because, frankly, the workshop needs to be designed before I can go out to deliver it.
I am between workshops at the moment and am sitting in a Starbuck’s on the University of Toronto campus. And, with this morning’s slam-dunk of a workshop behind me, my mind has turned to the Gong Show of last night and I just have to share…
I am always amazed, as I ride the buses, trains, and subways that get me to and from work, that people can sleep on public transit. And, I don’t mean a light cat nap. I mean drooling, snoring, sleep talking, and, my personal favourite, the shoulder lean. Really, there’s nothing quite like a fellow commuter asleep on your shoulder!
I am not a transit sleeper. I just don’t ever feel tired enough, I am not relaxed enough, and, it is not that comfortable. However, last night, on my way home from Toronto on the GoBus, I was so tired that I drifted in and out of fitful sleep.
When the bus pulled in to Hamilton at 7:00pm all I could think was; ‘In 90 minutes, after getting Zachary and Michael settled into bed, I can climb into my own comfy nest and get a good night’s sleep. Only 90 minutes, only 90 minutes…!’ I could feel the comforting mantra playing in my head as I made my way home from the bus stop.
Well, the Universe had other plans for me…
When I arrived home at 7:15, the kids were just heading off to the park to play lacrosse with my mom so I had a few minutes to empty the dishwasher, tidy the kitchen, clean out lunch bags, pack lunches for tomorrow and unpack and start repacking my own lunch bag. I debated putting in a load of laundry but decided I wouldn’t be up long enough to see it through.
When the boys got home from the park at 8:00, I told them it was snack time and then teeth. Michael told me that he could not eat his snack until he told me about a bullying incident that had happened after school (part of a larger issue that has been ongoing through the winter).
Zachary tore out of his seat and ran to the back door yelling; ‘Mommy, mommy, hurry…Prana has a baby bunny!’ Our cat had caught a baby rabbit in the backyard and was proceeding to torture it at the back door. Zachary’s screaming scared her away from it so that when I arrived on the scene, I had a full view of an adorable little brown bunny lying on its side and twitching helplessly.
I am usually vey calm in an emergency. I can keep my head, be rational and I know what needs to be done. I don’t know whether it was just sheer fatigue or the upset of Michael’s bullying story, but the sight of this poor little injured baby bunny just undid me.
And, at 8:45 at night, all I wanted to be dealing with was the effort of brushing my teeth in preparation for bed, not dealing with frantic kids and an injured animal.
So I didn’t. I sent the boys across the street to get my neighbour, John.
John arrived all calm and in charge. He asked me to get a box and sat with the bunny and the five worried kids surrounding it (at this point, Max had come home and John’s kids had come over to join in on the excitement). When I procured the requested box, John suggested I call Animal Control, which I did. Animal Control told me they would send someone out as soon as possible. Seeing that we were all settled, John left the rabbit in my care and took his own kids home for bed.
At this point it was 9:30. My kids were totally wired, I still hadn’t heard the bullying incident and I had adopted an injured bunny for an undefined amount of time. I sent Zach to bed and sat down with Michael to help him. It was 10:00 by the time I got to the bottom of the story.
I had visions of a big, burly man who was going to grab the bunny and head for his truck to put the poor little thing out of its misery. However, what we got was absolutely the opposite!
The Animal Control guy was wam, nurturing and so gentle. He told us that the bunny looked good and that he was going to take it to his truck so that he could keep it warm in a little incubator. He also told us the bunny had a good chance and that, most likely, he would recuperate and be set free in a few days.
We had barely shut the door behind Animal Control when I burst into tears! I just felt completely overwhelmed with the bullying, the bunny, the late hour, the long week, and my partner out-of-town that I just dissolved. The kids, being so comfortable with my outward displays of emotion, just hugged me and told me that everything was okay.
All I could think was; shouldn’t I be the one comforting them?
It was well after 10:30 by the time I re-settled the kids. At that point I needed to craft a lengthy e-mail to Michael’s principal about the bullying and tidy up some work e-mail before shutting down.
I was just finishing up when Max produced a five-page trip form that was due the next morning!
It was 11:30 by the time I got into bed…and as I reflected on my extraordinary evening, I realized that my wonderful neighbour had swept in with his cape flying when I really needed him. It’s funny, when you are a mom, you are supposed to just innately know what to do in any situation that should arise.
Well…last night all I could think of was asking for help.
And, not only did help arrive, it arrived with a smile, a laugh and the warmth that I needed. Isn’t it amazing to know that we live in these incredible communities with extraordinary people who don’t even think twice about lending a hand?
And that all we need to do is ask.
I think that is truly extraordinary! 🙂